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I have just met with my tuition teacher in Secondary School, he is really the best teacher I ever seen. Friendly towards students and being best buddies with us after ending class. What he told me is just to divide my time well and enjoy the University life when I chatted with him.

Yes, I admitted the importance of time management especially after going away form home and studying outside, parents are no more be my side anymore and they do not urge me again and again for studying anytime. I am now the only controller of myself and I decide everything in my daily life. So, the self-control and time management are extremely important in order to live a better study life.

Time really flies especially when I flashed back the moment I first entered University, I felt like this is indeed a  strange and not so comfortable place compared to my home. But now, I get used to it and starting to enjoy what I am having now. It is still a long journey to go in my academic, career and finally achieve quality and comfortable life I want, my journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and I cherish every single step I am going now.

Middle of the November.

Coming to the mid of the November, what does means?
A. Going to the end of this semester?
B. Semester break is coming?
C. Due dates of assignments are coming?!
D. Final exam is coming???!!!( Oh my god!)
E. All of the above.
No doubt, the answer for the MCQ above is E, the good news here is the semester is going to end and the break is coming, however for enjoying the semester break, there are still many missions to go.
The coming test 2, submission date for all assignments as well as final exam are there and waiting for me. This semester has no any mid-term break or study break for me, i start to wonder whether i manage to prepare well for the final exam. In facts, with less procrastination, i feel 'quite' ok for this semester compared to the previous one, yet i might not know what is happening next, will i suffer like last semester later? It's a question and waiting for me to answer. What I can do now is just manage my time well and do what I suppose to do. Be frank, I wish to be in the Dean's list again for this semester. With that, I feel that I am not wasting my time and my life here. All the best for me! =)

The lesson in life

"Time is the cruelest teacher; first she gives the test, then teaches the lesson."

Just like Science, it always needs evidences and facts to support it and make people believe, here in our life, we need something to refer and experience when we are being taught for the lesson of life. When childhood, we used to be naughty and did not listen to parents' advices for not running all around. Once, when falling down, we felt the pain then we did not dare to do it again at the next time. Human are just stubborn, there is some people seem like always doing many things without thinking further. This kind of people is just like a naughty student who could not sit in the classroom with calm and silent, they don't like theories but prefer practical. They do things, they run, they fall, they look at their wounds and scars, then they understand the lesson. I am not criticism them, but just talking about another way of learning. It is not a bad thing, yet sometimes might leave you regret and sorry. Life is fair, you receive something when you lost something; you regret for something but you might gain something. Like a strict teacher, she might blame you when you fail in test, but soon you would be taught something from your false.

Run out of time!

It has been a long time I never log in to my blog.
Test 1 was just finished two days ago, and i am having three-days holidays for Deepavali.

*Happy Deepavali to all my Indian friends =) *

At first, i guessed i will have a sweet time in these few days, however its just a dream. Assignments are there and waiting for me to complete. Seeing my to-do lists full on my wallpaper of laptop, i know i have to make good use of every second in these few days. Seriously, this is not really a holidays for me! I doubt, for all my friends who is dealing with assignments too.

Well, here comes to my time to continue doing assignments again. Haiz!
Hope that i could have at least some free time like now to......UPDATE MY BLOG.

What for?

" Love those who love you more and devote yourself less to those who don't "

Suddenly saw this sentence when surfing internet and I am quite agree about it. Indeed, there is no way that everyone around us treats us with the same way, there should be somebody loves us more, and somebody hates us. I never believe that anyone could actually treat everyone as just the same, it's impossible. The game of life is just simple to play, treat the others as how they treat us. It's worth to be nice with everyone who treats you well, however if they don't, WHAT FOR?

You're just waste your time and energy.

An angel in the devils

Listening to a Chinese song, I was attracted by its calm and soft melody, I love that kind of melody which bringing the sense of comfortable.

 

 I love this part of the song (Directly translated from Chinese lyrics) -

"You're an angel from a group of devils

The way you make my heart broken is-

to let me smile until the last second

then I'll suddenly discover a knife that has been pierced by you on my bosom."

It's talking about the lovers nowadays, who is too stubborn in a relationship. Even thought they know well about their mates are not that good enough, however it doesn't change their mind in the relationship. Those in love are sometimes fool, this is indeed true. That's why those in love are willing to smile until the last second and dying like nothing happens.

One is killing the other who is willing to be killed, so in this scenario, who false? Is the one who helping to fulfill a wish to die,or the fool who is walking into the dead path?

Then, who is doing the right thing? Is the one who helping, or the one who is loyal to love until the last second?

It's seems like polite

Since childhood, we had been taught to be polite all the time. Of course, we practiced to say please and thank you when request and get something from the others. However, have you ever heard about some words like this:

" PLEASE take that for me, THANK YOU. "

Yes, we just feel like normal whenever hearing the others ask you to do this and that with a please and thank you. Here the question is, will you reject such "polite" request?

For sure, you will not reject, or in the other words, you might not know how to reject due to embarrassing. This scenario would let you be in the hot water especially when your friend ask you to do something that you are not willing to do.

Let's think deeper about this, don't you think that saying thank you in prior is actually a kind of forcing someone to do something that he or she is not willing to do? Shall we speak this sentence out loudly to answer those kind of request which seems like polite:

How if I say I don't want? 

It is just a mask

Suddenly thinking of a literature- "The Phantom of the Opera" which has been read by me when I was Form Two. The main character, Erik is an ugly guy with a mask always on his face. He travels all around an opera which was built by him. He is scary, for no one knows his identities, no one knows his emotions, or even no one knows whether he is a phantom.



Sad to say that, there are too many Erik in the real world. They do not cover their face with a mask, but with their faking smile on face. They could be your friends, lover, or even bosom friends. As what I have said before, the phantom is scary for no one knows about him, however don't you think those phantoms with faking smile masks are much more terrible? We know, we should stand far away from the phantom when seeing his mask, however, how when you face a smiling face in real life? Should you stand far away? Or smile to him or her, then get closer? The best method is to prepare yourself a perfect mask, hide yourself under it, and observe the people in front of you. By that, no one dare to give you a sudden attack for they never know about who is stronger, you or him, or her. The rule of the game is: you might be the loser if you step into a community without any mask on your face. Don't wait to be attacked by anyone, it isn't fun, instead, you go first, then you decide, whether attack or not.

Yes, I believe that there might have someone treat you with real face, but the "someone" is too hard to be met. If you find the "someone", you are lucky; if not, it is just normal.



However, I wish that all of us are the lucky one.